If your woman has just recently left you, then you’re no doubt feeling a whole host of painful emotions. No doubt you’re feeling upset, angry, jealous, distraught, lost or a whole host of other ugly emotions that lead to the dark side.
Am I right?
Your gut instincts are probably also telling you to scheme up some sort of master plan to try and win her back and make her fall in love with you again, right?
AND… If you are trying to scheme up a plan, does this plan involve you professing your undying love for her, buying her flowers, expensive gifts, writing poetry or love songs and doing whatever it takes to win her back again?
If it does, I’m gonna bust your balls here, because it’s time to hear the truth.
WAKE THE FUCK UP & SNAP OUT OF IT!! Stop crying and behaving like a little girl, and be a MAN!!
I know in the movies doing these things works like a charm. But this is NOT the movies… This is REAL life!
And in real life, women do NOT like it when men try to win them back with these types of acts. Look, sure most women out there are going to argue with me, try and tell me I don’t know what I’m talking about and blame me for trying to turn the male population into sexist, uncaring, unromantic, stingy bastards.
But the truth is, if your woman has just left you, then she doesn’t want you to be part of her life at the moment. She obviously sees her life as being more valuable WITHOUT you. She just isn’t attracted to you anymore… For now (you CAN change this you know)!
Now I know it’s one of the hardest things ever, to let go of your lady – I’ve been in EXACTLY the same situation myself you know. Every fiber of your being is telling you that you NEED to get her back, that you can’t live without her. And you are going to try ANYTHING to have her back in your life.
Well, I’ve got some GREAT news for you… You CAN have her back. I’ve got THE way for you to get her back in your life.
But you’re gonna have to understand WHY she left you in the first place, so you can CHANGE the behavior that has turned her off you, and reignite her attraction in you by BEHAVING in a way that she is SUB-CONSCIOUSLY PROGRAMMED to be attracted to.
O.k, so lets look at WHY she has left you.
Firstly though, if you truthfully analyze the underlying attitudes, beliefs and values that you hold within yourself, and look at your personality, characteristics and behavior traits, can you answer YES to being one or more of the following types of men:
- You allow your woman to make the majority of decisions in your lives, especially the small ones e.g; whenever she asks you the question “what shall we ________ ?” – fill in the blank – do you often or always answer “I dunno/care, what do you wanna do?”
- You easily give in to a woman’s demands, offering no challenge or standing up for what you want
- You tolerate bad behavior towards yourself from your woman or any other person
- You are jealous of her friendships with other men, or even just seeing her talk to another man
- You constantly text, call and smother her with attention, giving her NO space of her own
- You have NO ambitions of becoming someone greater, doing better things, helping to serve and better your community
- You can’t take care of yourself
- You are NOT confident, easy-going or fun-loving
- You constantly seek her approval or the approval of others
- Your attitude towards life is negative
- Your posture is slouched and your demeanor and body language is very closed and defensive, or is fidgety, jumpy, wired and generally unsettled and uncool
Now, if you answered NO to ALL of these descriptions, then I’m guessing your woman has left you because she caught you doing something/someone you shouldn’t have been. And in that case, I congratulate the woman for not tolerating unacceptable behavior.
If, on the other hand, you answered YES to any of the above descriptions, then listen up – because there is hope. You CAN change the personality, character and behavior traits of yourself that have driven her away.
So here’s the reason WHY your lady is outta your life.
The personality, character and behavior traits that you display, are NOT the qualities that women are hard-wired and sub-consciously programmed to be attracted to. At this present time, you are displaying qualities of a ‘Beta-Male’ (the followers and/or weak of the pack).
Women are HARD-WIRED and SUB-CONSCIOUSLY PROGRAMMED to be attracted to the ‘Alpha Males’ (the leaders of the pack).
Do you understand the significance of this scientifically proven truth?
If ALL women are hard-wired to be attracted to those certain Alpha Male qualities, then getting your woman back is merely a matter of learning what those qualities are, and then working to make them a part of who YOU are.
So don’t be so hard on yourself. Understand that it’s really nothing personal – even though this sounds ludicrous and goes against all logic – that your woman left you. In reality, all that really happened, is that you had not yet learned the ‘rules’ of this game, and she has lost interest – only for now – because you don’t know those rules.
You have broken the ‘rules’ and behaved in way that is NOT attractive to women
Once you know and understand those rules though, and then apply them, you can have her again – or ANY other woman for that matter.
So that’s WHY your woman has left you.
You have obviously been behaving in a manner that is not attractive to woman, and as a result, your woman has left.
To get her back, learn what the Alpha Male traits that you require are, come to understand them fully, implement them into your own personality, character and behavior traits, and finally practice and MASTER them. Once you have done this, the world is your oyster, and I have a sneaking suspicion that you’re probably going to move onto greater things from there.
So in conclusion, work on eliminating any weak, in-decisive, needy, over-bearing, jealous, negative traits by learning how to be a supremely confident, strong, decisive, easy-going, fun-loving, challenging man.
If you need help learning about these traits and how to apply them to your life, make sure you have a good look around this site. There is a ton of valuable information available here, absolutely FREE.
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I hope this article sheds some light on your situation and WHY it may have happened to you. I sincerely hope that you can overcome this challenge in your life – I honestly know first-hand, how painful an experience this is – and become the type of man who can have ANY woman he desires.
All the best