How To Become An Alpha Male

There are many traits and characteristics that need to be learned and mastered to become successful with women.  Where many guys go wrong though, is they will try to learn certain pick-up lines or specific techniques, WITHOUT FIRST learning WHAT attracts women, and HOW to BE the sort of man that women are waiting and searching for.  They are looking for a quick fix, instead of being educated with the CORRECT principles.

Now, there are techniques and pick-up ROUTINES that work extremely well, but what makes them so effective is not so much the actual routine, but the belief system and behavioral patterns of the man who delivers them.  It is the behavior and beliefs of the ALPHA MALE  that attracts women, not the routines on their own.

Alpha Males have an aura about them that is different to the average man.  Notice that most average men are usually tense, stressed, hurried, fidgety and generally displaying weak behavior.  They tend to have their heads down, shoulders slouched, arms folded, eyes looking at their feet and too busy to be aware of their surroundings, or too scared to interact with it.  They will mostly seem uncontrolled, or worse, out of control.  And, they display and exude WEAKNESS.

The Alpha Male on the other hand, is the exact opposite.  He is strong, powerful and confident.  He is cool, calm and collected and totally at ease in any social situation.  He is in complete control – of himself, and his surroundings.  He is the TRIBAL LEADER.  He is the one that women align themselves with because sub-consciously, he gives them the BEST possible chance for their survival and replication.  He provides a sense of complete protection and safety and he displays the ultimate in personal strength.

If you want to enjoy phenomenal success with women, then you MUST become the Alpha Male.  You must develop the correct attitudes, belief systems, social skills, behavioral patterns and body language that will make you an Alpha Male.

Here are 5 key traits you need to develop and implement in your behavior and body language, to be an Alpha Male.

  1. RELAX. This is the most important emotional state for you to be in because it makes you look like you are in TOTAL CONTROL of yourself.  Self control is one of the sexiest attributes a man can possess, and women love it when a man behaves this way.  If you are relaxed about everything, the lady (or ladies) you are with will be influenced by your attitude and feel the same way.  So slow down your movements and relax your muscles.  Make your movements slow and fluid like you are walking in water.  Relax your eyelids and control your eye movements, scan your surroundings SLOWLY.  Remember, Alpha Males are rarely in a hurry, except when there is an emergency, so SLOW EVERYTHING down.
  2. POSTURE.  Alpha Males have powerful, masculine and authoritative posture.  Visualize yourself as a masculine man and FEEL masculine and powerful.  Stand with your back straight, shoulders back, chest out, chin up, (there’s a reason the military drill this posture into soldiers you know), eyes looking forward and NOT down at your feet.  But do it in a relaxed fashion.  You DON’T want to look like you are an ape or wannabe tough guy.  Remember, it’s all about appearing RELAXED.
  3. CONFIDENCE.  You need to display SUPREME CONFIDENCE.  You need to be absolutely assured of yourself and realize that you are a man of HIGH VALUE and STATUS.  Focus on your strengths and qualities and ignore your weaknesses and deficiencies, and you will be more likely to have a higher belief in yourself.  I like to use affirmations to declare to myself what I believe.  “I am a powerful, masculine, sexy Alpha Male”, “I am a high status, high value Alpha Male”, “I am the GREATEST and ALL women want me”.  Be as arrogant as you have to be in order to develop your supreme confidence.
  4. FEEL COMFORTABLE.  Feel comfortable in your own skin.  Feel comfortable around GORGEOUS WOMEN.  Feel comfortable in social situations.  Feel comfortable being alone.  Feel comfortable NO MATTER WHAT!  Being and feeling comfortable no matter what you are doing or who you are with is key to being an Alpha Male.  Why?  Because the Alpha Male is comfortable and confident in ALL his surroundings and company.  It is the Alpha Male who is in control, and EVERYONE knows it.  So if you want to be the Alpha, you better start behaving like one and FEEL comfortable NO MATTER WHAT!
  5. TAKE UP SPACE.  The Alpha Male takes up A LOT of space.  Spread out your body, stretch out your arms, hold your head high and just take up as much space as you want.  Have you ever noticed an alpha male out at a bar?  You know the one, the guy who has LOTS of women hanging around him.  When he sits down what is he doing?  He spreads his arms out across the backs of the chairs that are next to him.  Even if people are sitting in them, and especially if women are in them, he still does it.  And he does it WITHOUT APOLOGIZING.  In fact, NEVER apologize for anything you do.  An alpha male DOES NOT apologize for being himself.

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It’s a powerful system to help you transform into your IDEAL SELF, and succeed at Attracting and Seducing Women.  If you are struggling with confidence issues, conversation issues, or just looking for an easy to apply system that WILL help take your GAME to an incredible level, then this program is a MUST HAVE.  And at only $39.97 it’s an absolute bargain investment into your future life with women!  Highly Recommended!



The KEY to Success with Women

There are many aspects of attraction that need to be learned and applied.  But there is ONE that stands out above everything else, and without it, everything you do will be useless.


If you take note of men with power and high status, MANY of these men possess this quality.  Movie stars, rock stars, high profile sportsmen, maybe even your boss.  They seem to be totally relaxed and in complete control in social situations.  They KNOW without a doubt, that they are hot property and can get ANY woman they want.  They KNOW they are THE SHIT!

It is this relaxed confidence that makes women weak at the knees.  It is this relaxed confidence that makes these men seem like they are gifted naturals that have all the gorgeous women flocking to them.  It’s not their fame or power that is attractive to women, but rather their relaxed confidence and belief in themselves.  This is what makes them different from MOST ordinary men.

Have you ever noticed how all the ORDINARY guys behave in social situations?  They find it hard to look others in the eye – especially women – they seem fidgety and uptight, they will stand with their hands in their pockets or hold their drinks across their chests, a classic defensive posture.  They NEVER look relaxed OR confident and they don’t seem to be enjoying themselves.

These guys will continually go out to bars, parties or social events in the HOPE of getting LUCKY with a woman, yet never realize that their behavior and body language is their downfall.  They will have a terrible time, maybe even go from bar to bar, continually having the same experience because they fail to see that their actions are NOT attractive to women.

These are the men who BLAME their lack of fame, money or good looks for their failures with women.  They even blame women, saying that all the women are too up themselves, snobby or too high maintenance.  It’s not that women are any of these things, most of the time it’s because these guys are just NOT behaving the RIGHT WAY for women to be attracted to them.  Instead, women are REPULSED by them.

Maybe you have been or still are one of these guys.  That’s ok though, because it’s NEVER too late to change.  If you have the desire to learn how to be better at attracting women, then you definitely have the drive and ambition to change who you are.

Now, if you want to enjoy the sort of success with women that only the famous or the naturals seem to be able to have, then start by relaxing and being confident in social situations.  Instead of being like all the other lame guys, hanging around in packs for safety, only approaching women when they are drunk and full of dutch courage, start being the guy who has the balls to walk up to ANY woman, look her in the eye and say “Hi”.

Start building friendships and relationships with a wide variety of people.  Extend your circle of friends and acquaintance’s.  Be relaxed and friendly with EVERYONE.  Being a man who can mingle with and be relaxed around a diverse group of people gives everyone the impression you are a person with high social status.  This makes you extremely attractive in the eyes of women, especially beautiful women.

By doing this, you will cease to be ordinary, and start to be extraordinary.  And being extraordinary is extremely attractive to women.  Start visualizing yourself being totally relaxed and confident in ALL social situations.  Visualize and practice in your head, being totally relaxed talking to women.  ALL WOMEN!

Try joining some groups where women already go, like dance groups, or yoga class, even the gym is a good place to start meeting new people.  Not only will you be exposed to new people, but you will also gain new skills and strengths.

It takes practice to become good at anything, and being relaxed and confident in social situations is no different.  You need to start somewhere, sometime, and now is just as good a time as any.  Remember though, this is just an eyeopener, the tip of the iceberg, something to make you aware of whats needed to start building a new and better you.

In future posts we’ll concentrate on more specific methods and techniques to really help boost your progress.  For now, start visualizing having relaxed confidence.  Study successful ladies men.  Get out there and build new friendships and acquaintances.

Till next time …



What Women REALLY Want

So you want to know what women want?  Of course you do, what man doesn’t?  Well, if you’ve ever listened to what the media says, or even many women, then you are going to be surprised by what I’m about to reveal to you.

You see, women may think they know what they want.  The media claims to know and continually portray what they think.  But why then, do we constantly see women contradict themselves about what they say they want?  We hear them say they are looking for a nice guy who treats them like a princess and with total respect, but continually CHOOSE to date and even MARRY, men who treat them terribly, have absolutely no respect for them and seem to drag them down.

In my vast experience with women, I have found that women want many things, but the thing women want the most is … To experience STRONG, POWERFUL, OVERWHELMING EMOTIONS.  That’s right guys, women want to experience EMOTIONS.  That’s why they LOVE BAD BOYS!  Because they evoke powerful emotions in women.

Women CRAVE to be swept off their feet.  They dream about it, fantasize about it, and they fall hopelessly in LOVE with a man who manages to deliver these powerful emotions that they are CRAVING.  Money, fame, looks, height, education, status and anything else that most men seem to constantly think are the most important attributes to possess are all irrelevant.  None of that matters ONE LITTLE BIT.


Because women’s need for money, looks, status etc come from the intellectual or CONSCIOUS part of the brain while their emotions ie. love, attraction, fear, even hate come from the emotional or SUB-CONSCIOUS part of the brain.  Most women will make a decision based on how they FEEL, not what they THINK.

In other words, a woman can’t help NOT to be in love with a man that evokes strong, powerful emotions in her.  She can’t CHOOSE to be in love or not to be in love.  She doesn’t STEP into love, she FALLS into love.  She has NO choice because it is an EMOTIONAL decision, not an INTELLECTUAL one.   Have YOU ever tried to stop loving someone who wasn’t good for you, someone who constantly gave you heartache and suffering?  How successful were you?  I’m guessing not very successful because of the EMOTIONAL ties you had to her.

If you want a woman to be falling at your feet, fighting others to be the one who gets to be with you, then it is absolutely imperative that you evoke strong, powerful emotions in her in order for her to fall hopelessly for you.

The emotions you evoke in her DO NOT have to be positive emotions either.  Hate is NOT the opposite of love, it is loves’ partner.  Indifference is loves’ opposite.  It is far easier to make a woman that hates you fall in love with you, then it is to make a woman who has no feelings whatsoever for you.

Taking a woman on an emotional roller coaster ride is the most effective method to make her fall for you.  Most men don’t realize that a woman doesn’t have to like you in order to LOVE you.  Quite often, the reason she doesn’t like you is the reason she falls in love with you.

You see, us humans will LIKE someone who is LIKE us, but we will LOVE someone who is distinctly DIFFERENT from us.  We are powerfully attracted to people who have something we DON’T have, and the more different they are, the stronger the attraction.  That’s why they say opposites attract.

So the thing that us men need to do, is give women powerful, emotional experiences.  Be UNPREDICTABLE and take them on an emotional roller coaster ride.  If you feel like being nice, then be nice, but don’t EVER be afraid to show a woman that you are just as capable of being or saying something shocking.  Have the balls to say and do what you want.  Be a MAN, not a WUSS!

Also, understand that the powerful emotion of attraction that overrides ALL women’s requirements for a potential partner, and makes them do things they would NEVER tell their mothers about, can only be caused by a DOMINANT MALE – The man she CANNOT CONTROL.

Women are instinctively programmed to react to a dominant man in a way that makes them weak at the knees, feel swept off their feet and experience these all powerful emotions.  They respond to predetermined patterns of behavior and fall in love with someone who exhibits this type of behavior.

If you want to drive women crazy to the extent they completely disregard your looks, wealth or social status, then continue to visit THE SUAVE MAN and learn how to develop and apply these skills, characteristics  and behavioral patterns in your life.