10: Thou Shalt Listen More, Talk Less

Thou Shalt Listen More, Talk Less.

Once again, the most important person and topic in EVERY human’s life, is always OURSELVES.  Instead of constantly thinking of what to say next, listen to what she has to say and work your conversations around those “little nuggets” of information that she gives you.

People in general, will drop those little nuggets of information into conversations, that they are keen to talk more openly about.  Most guys tend to think that they need to constantly come up with topics to talk about.  Most of the time, they talk about “guy” things and BORE the hell out of women.

All you need to do, is listen carefully to “what” she “wants” to talk about and carry on the conversation WITH her.  Focus your attention on LISTENING.