Thou Shalt Learn To Pay Attention, Observe and Gain Information.
Pay attention and take notice of the little things that can tell you A LOT about a woman. Average guys are usually too focused on their OWN thoughts and feelings (usually thoughts of fear, insecurity, unworthiness, rejection and failure) to pay attention to the subtle little cues, and nuggets of information that could help them approach women. By paying closer attention, you not only gain useful information to help in your approach, but you also refocus your energy on planning for success, instead of thinking about failure.
Some things to look out for are: wedding rings, is she with friends, is she popular, is she intimate with another man, is she enjoying herself, what is she drinking, does she dance, does she look bored or lonely, is she the “third wheel” etc.
Thou Shalt ALWAYS Be “Cocky and Funny.”
Behaving with that irresistible blend of relaxed, fun-loving confidence (cocky), and teasing humor (funny), can make you refreshingly unique, unforgettable, highly attractive and desirably sexy. In a world where men are constantly bombarding women with insincere compliments with the intention of “winning” their approval (trying to get in their pants), you will immediately stand out from the crowd and throngs of “losers” by saying things that no other man dare say.
By having the confidence and balls to say something like: “Look, I know I’m a hottie, but you really need to stop trying to seduce me”, is far more powerful and attractive than saying the same old boring things like “ohh, you have such beautiful eyes”. BORING! Behave in a confidently relaxed, fun-loving manner while teasing and making off-the-cuff, cocky comments.
Thou Shalt Always APPEAR to be Busy.
Women are attracted to men who have depth and many different aspects to their lives, with lots of things going on. It shows that you have good social skills and social value, and makes you seem far more interesting – compared to someone who has nothing going on, and leads a dull, boring life.
If you want a woman to BELIEVE that you are a man of value, then it is vitally important that she thinks you lead a busy, exciting and rewarding life. Nothing is more unattractive, than a man who has NO interests, hobbies or passions of his own.
So if a woman ever asks you “what are you doing?”, never say “ohh nothing.” Even if you aren’t busy, say you are and give the APPEARANCE that you ARE a busy person.