Thou Shalt Create Tension To Increase Attraction.
Changing the amount of attention you give to a woman WILL drive her “crazy”, and make her wonder what is going on. By giving her your undivided attention one day, and then the next day appearing to be too busy for her, will make her wonder if she has done something, or said something wrong.
She will feel tension, and be emotionally compelled to resolve that tension. Because she is feeling that tension – that you have caused – she WILL be thinking about YOU, and powerless to stop. And, because she can’t stop thinking about you, and the tension she is feeling, she will start to become emotionally attached to YOU.
Women make decisions based on their emotions more than logic, so take advantage of those emotional triggers.
Thou Shalt Avoid Obsessing over ONE Particular Woman.
Don’t become obsessed or emotionally tied to ONE woman – YET. Obsessing over one woman causes you to lessen your opportunities with others, and causes you to become overly, emotionally attached, and behave in a needy and desperate manner because of your emotional investment.
Only AFTER you have developed ALL of your skills and traits necessary for you to succeed with women, should you even think about settling with one particular woman. Why? Because if you have NOT yet developed the necessary attitudes, behavior traits and skill sets to be successful with ANY woman, then you are NOT likely to be ready for ONE woman.
Thou Shalt Learn to Handle and Accept Rejection.
Every single one of us, at one time or another, has, or is going to experience rejection. The best thing to do when you are rejected is, remain confidently relaxed, smile, say “that’s ok, see ya round”, and walk away.
Don’t be bitter – just accept that’s how it is. It’s her loss, not yours, and she just missed out on having a great time with an AWESOME guy. Once you learn to accept that not ALL women are going to be attracted to you, and you become comfortable with hearing “no”, then your fear of rejection will disappear. Once that fear disappears, it’s like the flood gates open up, and rejection becomes less and less a part of your life.
Part of the learning process though, and a necessary aspect of building your skills, is experiencing rejection. Just remember, it takes time to desensitize yourself, but like I said, a necessary aspect of building your skills. Approach women with an open mind, and if they do reject you, just remember it’s nothing personal. Actively seek rejection, for the more rejection you experience, the less rejection seems to come your way.
These are the “commandments” I have used to help guide me in “The Game of Love”. They have served me well and helped me enjoy HUGE success with women. I hope these “commandments” can help you can gain as much success as I have, and guide you on your journey to becoming a SUAVE MAN.