There are many traits and characteristics that need to be learned and mastered to become successful with women. Where many guys go wrong though, is they will try to learn certain pick-up lines or specific techniques, WITHOUT FIRST learning WHAT attracts women, and HOW to BE the sort of man that women are waiting and searching for. They are looking for a quick fix, instead of being educated with the CORRECT principles.
Now, there are techniques and pick-up ROUTINES that work extremely well, but what makes them so effective is not so much the actual routine, but the belief system and behavioral patterns of the man who delivers them. It is the behavior and beliefs of the ALPHA MALE that attracts women, not the routines on their own.
Alpha Males have an aura about them that is different to the average man. Notice that most average men are usually tense, stressed, hurried, fidgety and generally displaying weak behavior. They tend to have their heads down, shoulders slouched, arms folded, eyes looking at their feet and too busy to be aware of their surroundings, or too scared to interact with it. They will mostly seem uncontrolled, or worse, out of control. And, they display and exude WEAKNESS.
The Alpha Male on the other hand, is the exact opposite. He is strong, powerful and confident. He is cool, calm and collected and totally at ease in any social situation. He is in complete control – of himself, and his surroundings. He is the TRIBAL LEADER. He is the one that women align themselves with because sub-consciously, he gives them the BEST possible chance for their survival and replication. He provides a sense of complete protection and safety and he displays the ultimate in personal strength.
If you want to enjoy phenomenal success with women, then you MUST become the Alpha Male. You must develop the correct attitudes, belief systems, social skills, behavioral patterns and body language that will make you an Alpha Male.
Here are 5 key traits you need to develop and implement in your behavior and body language, to be an Alpha Male.
- RELAX. This is the most important emotional state for you to be in because it makes you look like you are in TOTAL CONTROL of yourself. Self control is one of the sexiest attributes a man can possess, and women love it when a man behaves this way. If you are relaxed about everything, the lady (or ladies) you are with will be influenced by your attitude and feel the same way. So slow down your movements and relax your muscles. Make your movements slow and fluid like you are walking in water. Relax your eyelids and control your eye movements, scan your surroundings SLOWLY. Remember, Alpha Males are rarely in a hurry, except when there is an emergency, so SLOW EVERYTHING down.
- POSTURE. Alpha Males have powerful, masculine and authoritative posture. Visualize yourself as a masculine man and FEEL masculine and powerful. Stand with your back straight, shoulders back, chest out, chin up, (there’s a reason the military drill this posture into soldiers you know), eyes looking forward and NOT down at your feet. But do it in a relaxed fashion. You DON’T want to look like you are an ape or wannabe tough guy. Remember, it’s all about appearing RELAXED.
- CONFIDENCE. You need to display SUPREME CONFIDENCE. You need to be absolutely assured of yourself and realize that you are a man of HIGH VALUE and STATUS. Focus on your strengths and qualities and ignore your weaknesses and deficiencies, and you will be more likely to have a higher belief in yourself. I like to use affirmations to declare to myself what I believe. “I am a powerful, masculine, sexy Alpha Male”, “I am a high status, high value Alpha Male”, “I am the GREATEST and ALL women want me”. Be as arrogant as you have to be in order to develop your supreme confidence.
- FEEL COMFORTABLE. Feel comfortable in your own skin. Feel comfortable around GORGEOUS WOMEN. Feel comfortable in social situations. Feel comfortable being alone. Feel comfortable NO MATTER WHAT! Being and feeling comfortable no matter what you are doing or who you are with is key to being an Alpha Male. Why? Because the Alpha Male is comfortable and confident in ALL his surroundings and company. It is the Alpha Male who is in control, and EVERYONE knows it. So if you want to be the Alpha, you better start behaving like one and FEEL comfortable NO MATTER WHAT!
- TAKE UP SPACE. The Alpha Male takes up A LOT of space. Spread out your body, stretch out your arms, hold your head high and just take up as much space as you want. Have you ever noticed an alpha male out at a bar? You know the one, the guy who has LOTS of women hanging around him. When he sits down what is he doing? He spreads his arms out across the backs of the chairs that are next to him. Even if people are sitting in them, and especially if women are in them, he still does it. And he does it WITHOUT APOLOGIZING. In fact, NEVER apologize for anything you do. An alpha male DOES NOT apologize for being himself.
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