How To Be Attractive To Women

To begin with, you need to understand WHY women become attracted to certain men.  Once you have come to understand this, then you can more easily implement the proper changes in your personality and character to be more attractive to women.

Let’s start by looking at WHY women find some men extremely attractive, while other men have NO HOPE in hell.  On the surface, two men may SEEM the same.  They have similar physiques, similar looks, they make the same amount of money, drive the same sort of car etc etc.

But when it comes to attracting women, one is WAAYY ahead of the other in ‘the game’.  Why is this, and what are they doing differently?  It’s really quite simple – one possesses and displays attractive qualities and characteristics, and the other doesn’t.  When women become attracted to a man, it’s because he has ‘certain‘ qualities and characteristics that have TRIGGERED that attraction in them.

Women are sub-consciously hard-wired and programmed with an innate desire to mate with the DOMINANT men, the ALPHA MALES in our societies.  This desire has been naturally ingrained in women since the beginning of recorded history, when survival DEPENDED upon the strongest and fittest of the males to protect and provide for the welfare of the group.  By mating with the alphas, women ensured the greatest chance of survival to her offspring and the human race.

In fact, it’s such a natural instinct that most female mammals are programmed this way.  You only need to have a quick look at the many different species in the animal kingdom, and their sexual attraction behavior to see this is true.  Chimpanzees and Baboons are a prime example.  Go ahead, watch a program from Discovery Channel or Animal Kingdom about animal sexual attraction and you will see this for yourself.

The Dominant Alpha Male gets to have ALL the females, while the other males have to resort to tricks and bribery to get sex.  No different to humans really.  How many men do you see, trying to buy, bribe or trick their way into a woman’s life, heart and pants?  Women are NOT attracted to this type of behavior.  Are you one of these men?


Ok, even though we now live in a completely different era, and survival of the human race is no longer dependent on the strongest and fittest men, women are STILL hard-wired and programmed with that innate desire to mate with the strongest dominant males.  Remember, IT IS A NATURAL INSTINCT!

In this day and age though, men no longer NEED to be strong or fit PHYSICALLY (although it doesn’t hurt to be), but we DO NEED to be strong in character and personality.  We need to have the strength of character to follow our OWN hearts, make our OWN decisions, our OWN rules and control our OWN lives in order to have more success with women.

This is what gives a man his DOMINANCE.  It’s his ability to be in CONTROL of himself, and LEAD others that makes him an ALPHA MALE.  You don’t need to be a bully, or domineering, because that is NOT dominant.  That sort of behavior is just INSECURE, NEEDY and WEAK.  You DO need to be strong within yourself, confident and comfortable in who you are, decisive about what you want and have the GUTS to go and get what you want, in order to be a DOMINANT man.

If you are currently allowing women to CONTROL your destiny, or worse, GIVING CONTROL AWAY to the women in your life, then you will be suffering from a serious LACK of attractive characteristics and behavior.


So in order to become more attractive to women, you will need to start developing the strength of character to STAND on your OWN, and lead the way.  This starts with CONFIDENCE.

If you are hoping to have ANY sort of success with women, then it is absolutely ESSENTIAL, to develop your confidence so that you have the personal INNER strength to stand up for what you want.  Nobody will just give you what you want, you MUST have the BALLS to go and get what you want.

But confidence on its own is NOT enough.  There are lots of guys out there who have more than enough confidence, but will lose out to someone who possesses this characteristic every time.  What is it?  INITIATIVE.  This means YOU MUST ALWAYS BE FIRST.  Be first to walk up to a woman and start a conversation, be first to kiss her (without asking), be first to get her number, lead her to the bedroom, be first to initiate sex.  When you are out with a group, stay out in front.  Be FIRST.

In other words – LEAD!!!

You also NEED to start right NOW, being DECISIVE.  Start making decisions.  When someone asks for your input, give it.  If a woman asks what to do, tell her.  Start RIGHT NOW being decisive and making decisions.

DO NOT sit on the fence and say “I don’t care, whatever you want babe”, or “It’s up to you baby, you choose”.  This is WEAK behavior and NOT ATTRACTIVE TO WOMEN at all.  Women are NOT attracted to weak men.  “But I’m just being courteous and thinking about what she wants”, I can hear you saying.

NOOO, YOU ARE NOT!!!  You are being WEAK and INDECISIVE, and annoying the fuck out of her.  That’s why BAD-BOYS can ALWAYS get women – because they take control and lead the way.  They know what they want, and they have the confidence to go and get it.  Women are EXCITED by this behaviour, and by THE MAN who behaves this way.

Be strong, be confident, use initiative, be decisive.  BE DOMINANT.  Confidence, Initiative and Decisiveness are some of the most IMPORTANT qualities you will need, to be attractive to women.  They are not the only qualities, but these qualities will lay the foundation to becoming a SUAVE MAN.  If you ever hope to have the sort of success that you dream of, then start developing these qualities.



About Baden Maxwell

Baden has been incredibly successful with women since 1999/2000. Suffering a devastating break-up in 1997 when his fiance of 7 years left him, and after enduring 2 years of failure and feeling frustrated and annoyed at his lack of success with the ladies, he vowed to turn his life around! Baden discovered "The Secrets" to becoming an attractive man, and he devoted himself to learning and applying the principles of sexual attraction and relationship success through dedicated study, practice, trial and error. By applying these powerful principles, Baden was able to transform himself into the type of man that women find extremely attractive, highly desirable and incredibly sexy. To become extremely attractive and irresistible to women as well, follow Baden @
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3 Responses to How To Be Attractive To Women

  1. Eremeeff says:

    Not sure that this is true:), but thanks for a post.

  2. Jinny says:

    Hi, Not sure that this is true:), but thanks for a post.

  3. Saurooon says:

    Ugh, I liked! So clear and positively.

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