The Fundamentals of being a SUAVE MAN

There is a “type” of  man we are going to focus on, and help you become … He is the “type” that women absolutely LOVE … And LUST … He is a DOMINANT, POWERFUL, MASCULINE ALPHA MALE who is ALSO funny, kind, caring, thoughtful and understanding.  He is THE SUAVE MAN.

The Suave Man is not a bad ass with no respect or manners, but neither is he a wussy, push-over of a guy with no back-bone.  He has a combination of “nice guy” and “bad boy” qualities that make him irresistible to women.

He is a DOMINANT, POWERFUL, MASCULINE  man. A man who can take charge and lead the way in any situation, yet isn’t domineering or controlling.  He is open, friendly, optimistic, positive, fun and happy, yet will take a stand against those who are disrespectful, aggressive or violent.  He has his own opinions, yet lets others have theirs without judging them. He makes all those around him feel GREAT about being with him. 

He is completely comfortable in the presence of ALL women, no matter how beautiful they may be.  He treats them ALL the same way – with a fun, playful confidence and cheeky, flirtatious nature.  He ALWAYS has a cool, calm demeanor.  He makes women feel safe, yet extremely alive.  He enjoys the company of the ladies and they CRAVE to be in his company.  He LOVES women and women LOVE him.

He believes and KNOWS, that he is sexually attractive to women, yet doesn’t behave overly cocky or arrogant.  He knows he’s extremely attractive to women because of the way they treat him. However, he doesn’t need constant validation of his attractiveness nor does he seek it. He doesn’t need to beat his chest, make loud noises or big gestures like the other beta-males either, thinking that women will notice them if they behave like apes.

He understands what women find attractive and his character, attitudes and behaviour are proof that he is a highly attractive man.

I want you to read those paragraphs over and over, until the words sink into your head.  Ingrain those words into your sub-conscious mind and way of thinking, because this is the type of man you should be trying to become.  This is the man that women find extremely attractive and want to be with.

Here is a list of qualities you NEED to commit to developing and reinforcing in your sub-conscious mind.  You need to be

  • Confident
  • A Leader
  • Decisive
  • Strong in Personal Character
  • Funny
  • Passionate
  • Fun-loving
  • Bold
  • Courageous
  • Relaxed
  • Thoughtful
  • Kind
  • Caring
  • Understanding

These are the qualities that will help you become the type of man that ALL women want to be with.  If you can develop and ingrain these qualities into your personality and character, I promise you, you can have ANY women you desire.  Hell, you can have ANYTHING you desire!  You will have the strength of charater to have anything you want.  ANYTHING!!

Many people who are “authorities” on picking up women, or being a pick-up artist, or being a player, or whatever other label you want to put on it, will tell you not all of these qualities are necessary.  This is because they are only concerned with “picking up” women.  It’s only necessary for them to attract women initially, for the purpose of getting sex.

If that’s all you’re after, then by all means, go ahead, but that’s not SUAVE.  I’m not against you getting more sex, shit man, I’m all for that.  It’s the mis-use of this information, that leads to women becoming PREY, rather than PEOPLE, that pisses me off.  More often than not, men who behave this way just want conquests, not relationships.

If you want LASTING success with women, trust me, women will absolutely CRAVE to be with you, and be completely addicted to you, if you develop ALL the qualities on our list.  That’s what will make you a true ladies man, a real deal, SUAVE MAN.


About Baden Maxwell

Baden has been incredibly successful with women since 1999/2000. Suffering a devastating break-up in 1997 when his fiance of 7 years left him, and after enduring 2 years of failure and feeling frustrated and annoyed at his lack of success with the ladies, he vowed to turn his life around! Baden discovered "The Secrets" to becoming an attractive man, and he devoted himself to learning and applying the principles of sexual attraction and relationship success through dedicated study, practice, trial and error. By applying these powerful principles, Baden was able to transform himself into the type of man that women find extremely attractive, highly desirable and incredibly sexy. To become extremely attractive and irresistible to women as well, follow Baden @
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6 Responses to The Fundamentals of being a SUAVE MAN

  1. Alvince P says:

    I completely agree! It’s a combo of the Covey, Mystery, Strauss Theories. You know whats up Baden=). The confident, funloving attitude creates attraction and the understanding, caring disposition creates comfort, and when balanced does create the Alpha Male that women can not resist.

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  4. James says:

    Hey completely agree with everything you have said above. The problem is most people are teaching others to be arrogant and cocky when really they need to mix in some “Beta” male traits as well.

    So I’m a fan of hypnosis and the positive effect it can have. Does anyone know of any to become a suave man instead of a cocky badass as thats what most focus on

  5. Hey there James,

    Great comment. I’ve gotta agree with you about most people teaching guys to be “arrogant” and cocky. I even teach the principles of being “cocky and funny” myself.

    But what I see so often now, is guys learning ONLY that. Thinking that all they have to do to be successful with women is behave cocky and funny, and women will be begging to be with them. Well, what happens once the initial attraction has died down and the time for forming a closer bond and connection as arrived? How do those guys fare with the ladies now?

    Probably not so good I imagine.

    I believe it’s important to MASTER the art of “Cocky and Funny”, as this has subtle, but powerful effects on a woman’s sub-conscious thoughts and feelings. What I see all too often though, is guys becoming far too arrogant in their application of these techniques. So instead of them being viewed as confident and funny, they are viewed as being arrogant and cocky.

    It really is a fine line between being confident, and being arrogant. A little too much cockiness instead of funniness, and that’s it – now you’re being arrogant!

    Remember guys, after initial attraction, women seek a closer bond and connection, and behaving arrogant and cocky ALL the time won’t allow them to see who we really are.

    I believe that it’s imperative to mix other traits into your personality – but it has to become a NATURAL part of who you are, not just an ACT. In fact, EVERYTHING we do has to become a natural extension of who we are, otherwise we have only become actors, not Suave Men.

    I don’t agree so much about using “Beta” male traits though James, as these are traits that women are NOT attracted to at all, e.g indecisiveness, neediness, nervousness and awkwardness just to name a few. But, I do believe that it’s important to nurture our “softer” natures, and let certain people see that we are also caring, understanding and tender.

    Remember guys, just because we are showing our softer sides, it doesn’t mean we are being a “Beta” male. On the contrary- this shows how comfortable we are in ourselves and our ability to be HUMAN. It’s the balance of Alpha Male confidence, self-assuredness, strength and leadership traits, combined with our ability to be caring, understanding and tender that will make women see us someone SPECIAL. They will see us as a BALANCED MAN.

    And in my experience, this is the type of man 99% of women are seeking.

    As far as hypnosis goes, I’ve never had any experience with hypnosis for either myself or using NLP techniques or things like that to influence how women feel about me. What I can say is this: I believe that we ALL have the ability to change our core personality and our behavior traits. It’s just a matter of getting the right type of knowledge, information and training, and then committing and applying ourselves to changing, and then BEING the type of man we aim to be.

    As for knowing if anyone has become a Suave Man instead of a cocky badass, my answer is; YES James, I do… Me!!

    I used the knowledge and training I received to become just that – A Suave Man. And I know the principles and techniques I learned work, because I did it myself. I used to be a needy wuss of a guy, who couldn’t attract any women. But I became so sick and tired of my situation that I decided to change myself. Through learning certain attraction principles and then diligently working to make them a part of who I am, I slowly changed into the man I am today – A strong, powerful, confident, relaxed, funny, outgoing Alpha Male.

    And the amount and quality of women who become attracted to me because of who I am today, is mind-blowing!

    If you think hypnosis maybe for you, by all means do it man. I believe though, that if I can change who I was, anyone can change who they are.

    All the best

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