From Slob To Suave

 
Perhaps you have heard the old cliche, “all is fair in love and war?” Well, the “all” bit is only true when self-standards are exceedingly low, and the level of one’s appearance, style, and behavior are next to nil unless, of course, you’re looking for love at Walmart.

The only tail a fellow like this catches is from the back of a woman’s dress as she turns away in indignation to flee the scene. There is no need to give up, go home, and cry in a fetal position if you’re on the receiving end – it’s just time to invest in some self improving endeavors like hygiene, a respectable wardrobe, and some confidence drills. In just a short bit of time, you will transcend your mere-average circumstances and become the alpha you were destined to become. And who could possibly do a better job at imparting this enlightenment to you than James Bond himself (The Sean Connery version, of course).

Check out this infograph that can illuminate your path from Slob to Suave! Thanks to Shaun White from FlyGuyBowTie.com for sharing his work!!

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Bio: Shaun White lives in Boise, Idaho and writes humor articles and cartoon illustrations. “From Slob to Suave” was created FlyGuyBowTie.com.

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WHY Your Ex Left You

If your woman has just recently left you, then you’re no doubt feeling a whole host of painful emotions.  No doubt you’re feeling upset, angry, jealous, distraught, lost or a whole host of other ugly emotions that lead to the dark side.

Am I right?

Your gut instincts are probably also telling you to scheme up some sort of master plan to try and win her back and make her fall in love with you again, right?

AND…  If you are trying to scheme up a plan, does this plan involve you professing your undying love for her, buying her flowers, expensive gifts, writing poetry or love songs and doing whatever it takes to win her back again?

If it does, I’m gonna bust your balls here, because it’s time to hear the truth.

WAKE THE FUCK UP & SNAP OUT OF IT!!  Stop crying and behaving like a little girl, and be a MAN!!

I know in the movies doing these things works like a charm.  But this is NOT the movies…  This is REAL life!

And in real life, women do NOT like it when men try to win them back with these types of acts.  Look, sure most women out there are going to argue with me, try and tell me I don’t know what I’m talking about and blame me for trying to turn the male population into sexist, uncaring, unromantic, stingy bastards.

But the truth is, if your woman has just left you, then she doesn’t want you to be part of her life at the moment.  She obviously sees her life as being more valuable WITHOUT you.  She just isn’t attracted to you anymore…  For now (you CAN change this you know)!

Now I know it’s one of the hardest things ever, to let go of your lady – I’ve been in EXACTLY the same situation myself you know.  Every fiber of your being is telling you that you NEED to get her back, that you can’t live without her.  And you are going to try ANYTHING to have her back in your life.

Well, I’ve got some GREAT news for you…  You CAN have her back.  I’ve got THE way for you to get her back in your life.

But you’re gonna have to understand WHY she left you in the first place, so you can CHANGE the behavior that has turned her off you, and reignite her attraction in you by BEHAVING in a way that she is SUB-CONSCIOUSLY PROGRAMMED to be attracted to.

O.k, so lets look at WHY she has left you.

Firstly though, if you truthfully analyze the underlying attitudes, beliefs and values that you hold within yourself, and look at your personality, characteristics and behavior traits, can you answer YES to being one or more of the following types of men:

  • You allow your woman to make the majority of decisions in your lives, especially the small ones e.g; whenever she asks you the question “what shall we ________ ?” – fill in the blank – do you often or always answer “I dunno/care, what do you wanna do?”
  • You easily give in to a woman’s demands, offering no challenge or standing up for what you want
  • You tolerate bad behavior towards yourself from your woman or any other person
  • You are jealous of her friendships with other men, or even just seeing her talk to another man
  • You constantly text, call and smother her with attention, giving her NO space of her own
  • You have NO ambitions of becoming someone greater, doing better things, helping to serve and better your community
  • You can’t take care of yourself
  • You are NOT confident, easy-going or fun-loving
  • You constantly seek her approval or the approval of others
  • Your attitude towards life is negative
  • Your posture is slouched and your demeanor and body language is very closed and defensive, or is fidgety, jumpy, wired and generally unsettled and uncool

Now, if you answered NO to ALL of these descriptions, then I’m guessing your woman has left you because she caught you doing something/someone you shouldn’t have been.  And in that case, I congratulate the woman for not tolerating unacceptable behavior.

If, on the other hand, you answered YES to any of the above descriptions, then listen up – because there is hope.  You CAN change the personality, character and behavior traits of yourself that have driven her away.

So here’s the reason WHY your lady is outta your life.

The personality, character and behavior traits that you display, are NOT the qualities that women are hard-wired and sub-consciously programmed to be attracted to.  At this present time, you are displaying qualities of a ‘Beta-Male’ (the followers and/or weak of the pack).

Women are HARD-WIRED and SUB-CONSCIOUSLY PROGRAMMED to be attracted to the ‘Alpha Males’ (the leaders of the pack).

Do you understand the significance of this scientifically proven truth?

If ALL women are hard-wired to be attracted to those certain Alpha Male qualities, then getting your woman back is merely a matter of learning what those qualities are, and then working to make them a part of who YOU are.

So don’t be so hard on yourself.  Understand that it’s really nothing personal – even though this sounds ludicrous and goes against all logic – that your woman left you.  In reality, all that really happened, is that you had not yet learned the ‘rules’ of this game, and she has lost interest – only for now – because you don’t know those rules.

You have broken the ‘rules’ and behaved in way that is NOT attractive to women

Once you know and understand those rules though, and then apply them, you can have her again – or ANY other woman for that matter.

So that’s WHY your woman has left you.

You have obviously been behaving in a manner that is not attractive to woman, and as a result, your woman has left.

To get her back, learn what the Alpha Male traits that you require are, come to understand them fully, implement them into your own personality, character and behavior traits, and finally practice and MASTER them.  Once you have done this, the world is your oyster, and I have a sneaking suspicion that you’re probably going to move onto greater things from there.

So in conclusion, work on eliminating any weak, in-decisive, needy, over-bearing, jealous, negative traits by learning how to be a supremely confident, strong, decisive, easy-going, fun-loving, challenging man.

If you need help learning about these traits and how to apply them to your life, make sure you have a good look around this site.  There is a ton of valuable information available here, absolutely FREE.

To really boost your learning and progress, and get a great jump-start to your new way of BEING, there are a couple of resources I highly recommend you check out.

The first one was written by one of the MASTERS of seduction – John Alexander – and teaches men the Secrets to quickly and AUTOMATICALLY attract their Ex back into their arms.  Probably one of the greatest guides ever written, in my opinion, on this subject.  Click Here To GET YOUR EX BACK NOW

The other guide was also written by John Alexander, and teaches men how to succeed with ANY woman by ingraining the Alpha Male qualities into who they are, and applying the Secret Principles of MAGNETICALLY ATTRACTING women to YOU – Without EVER having to approach them.  Click Here To BECOME AN ALPHA MALE

I hope this article sheds some light on your situation and WHY it may have happened to you.  I sincerely hope that you can overcome this challenge in your life – I honestly know first-hand, how painful an experience this is – and become the type of man who can have ANY woman he desires.

All the best

Baden

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Why Women Leave Their Men

There is a lot of confusion among men as to why women leave them.  Along with the pain, suffering and humiliation that goes along with being dumped, it’s also the confusion and lack of understanding and knowledge about WHY their women have left them, that leaves men baffled.

So I want to give you a quick insight into this age old scenario.

So here’s the situation:  Your girl has just told you that it’s over.  She needs time and space to herself.  Don’t worry it’s got nothing to do with you, you’re great, it’s just that I don’t know what’s wrong with me she says, “I just don’t have time for a relationship at the moment.”  Then the next thing you know, it’s a couple of days later and she’s already with another guy!

What the hell?  I thought she just said she doesn’t have time for a relationship?  How could she break my heart like that and so callously lie to my face you are thinking?

Because, here’s the thing; what she REALLY meant, was that she doesn’t have time for a relationship with YOU!  And you know why?  Because more than likely you’ve been behaving in a way that has become BORING and PREDICTABLE to her, and you are NOT a strong, powerful, dominant Alpha Male.  She just doesn’t FEEL any chemistry or attraction for you anymore.

Now I don’t know you personally, but I’ve seen this situation enough times to know without a shadow of a doubt that this is the reason why women leave men.  Women don’t leave men because they behave badly, treat their women like shit, cheat on them or whatever other reason you can think of.

No, MOST women usually end up leaving their men because those men start behaving in a weak, boring and predictable manner.  The men have become boring to be with, and weak in nature.  The men have usually started handing over control – or worse, allowed the women to TAKE control away from them.  Absolutely NOT what women are looking for in a man!

Even if it’s just the little things,  like what to have for dinner, where to go or what to do.  If the man is NOT leading the way, making decisions and taking control then the woman has NO choice but to do it herself.  And when this happens, the man’s value in the eyes of the woman starts to diminish, and then so does his attractiveness.  He has become weak, boring and predictable – things that women HATE more than cheating and beatings.

That’s why MOST women don’t leave their men if they catch him cheating.  He obviously has value and attractiveness in the eyes of another women, which gives him value and attractiveness in her eyes.  Sure she’s going to be pissed as anything and you will be hard pushed to get anything from her for awhile, BUT …  If he usually leads the way and takes control in their relationship, she won’t leave!

On the other hand, if the man is constantly leaving the decision making up to the woman, fails to take control of the little things in the relationship – as well as the big things – and would rather sit around home and watch sports all night long, then the woman is going to find him less valuable and far less attractive.

So if you want your woman – or women – to constantly find you attractive and valuable, then you need to start behaving like a man of true value, of true power.  You need to start behaving like a dominant, strong and powerful Alpha Male.

When you behave in a strong and powerful manner, you will be displaying characteristics that ALL women are subconsciously programmed to be attracted to.  Because this attraction is on a subconscious level, women have no control over how they FEEL towards a man who possesses these qualities.

If you have ever dreamed of being irresistible to ANY woman, and would like the power to attract whoever you desire, then I strongly encourage you to check out my good friend John Alexander’s Alpha Male System.

John’s system will teach you everything you need to know about what women are subconsciously programmed to respond to, and how you can become the type of man that possesses those qualities that women can’t help being attracted to.

CLICK HERE to check it out NOW

And remember; take control in your relationships, make decisions and behave in a strong and powerful manner.  This will be a great start to you being a highly valuable and attractive man.

All the best

Baden

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