Approaching Women – Here’s A Method I’ve Used To Meet Countless Women

To start with, I want you to realize that it is possible to meet women ANYWHERE.  Having said that though, while it’s possible to meet women anywhere – even if you are just walking down the street – it’s more probable that you will meet them at a public gathering.

In my opinion, it’s definitely a lot easier at public gatherings – you know they are there for a reason, and more than likely, NOT in a hurry to leave.

Places like pubs, bars, nightclubs, parties, restaurants, cafe’s, stores, malls, outdoor events or get-togethers, are all places you are MOST likely to meet women.  While each of these settings has its own set of challenges, advantages and dis-advantages for meeting and attracting women, your success will ALWAYS depend entirely on YOUR skills and abilities in approach and attraction.

Regardless of what setting you may be in, the fundamentals are ALWAYS the same.  If you can learn and apply these key fundamental skills and methods, then you are more likely to see success.

O.k, so you have seen a woman you like the look of.  You feel the need to meet her and get to know her better.  How do you go about it?  Well here is a method I’ve used on countless occasions and had incredible success rates with.

I’ve found that this method works best if you approach a set of 2 or more women.  Also, don’t be discouraged if the set has men in it.  Just befriend them as well, and the women will be even more impressed with your social skills.  (Women LOVE men that are ‘leaders of men’).

This method is best suited to a social setting, like a bar, lounge or cafe.  Just remember, you are going to be talking, so a loud dance club isn’t an ideal location.

Also, this works equally well if you are either alone or with a friend.  Either way, it doesn’t really matter.  But I’ve found – although if you are just beginning, it may feel a little too intimidating – it’s actually more effective if you are alone.  But only IF you display the confidence, behavior traits and characteristics of an Alpha Male.

First, this needs a small amount of previous preparation, and requires you to have friends who play the game of attraction and seduction as well.  (Shouldn’t be too hard considering we are ALL interested in being more attractive to women.)

All you do, is get a wing-man to text a message to you, stating that he has just found out his girlfriend is cheating on him, and doesn’t know what to do.  He also says he doesn’t want to confront her because he doesn’t want to destroy their relationship.

Send a text back saying that she is already destroying their relationship, and if he doesn’t confront her, then you will, because you will NOT stand idly by while she hurts him.  Then he sends a final message back saying that he appreciates your loyalty but doesn’t want you to cause any drama, and he will sort it out his own way.

Now approach the set, and say;  “Hey guys look, I only have a few spare moments, but I could really use a woman’s opinion, can you help me out?”

Note:  Remember, it is ESSENTIAL, that you ALWAYS display the CORRECT, attractive attitudes and characteristics when approaching. (See 5 Keys to Approaching Women).  Also, by letting the set know that your time is limited, it sub-consciously lets them know, that you are NOT trying to intrude on their time and space, and impose yourself on their group.

Women love to give advice to men, and it is extremely rare that a set of women will refuse to help out a man who has the balls and courage to approach them and ask for help.

Side Note:  If they do refuse to help you , continue to be happy and friendly to them, thank them for their time and confidently walk away.  If there is another set of women close by, approach them and apply the same methods.  It’s important to do this, because it displays to your target group, that your intentions for approaching them stem from a genuine need for help.

This will build social value in the eyes of your target group – as they witness your high level of social skill – and more than likely, they will be more than willing to help you out after you leave the second set of women.

Anyway, back on track.

When they agree to help you, tell them that a friend of yours has just found out that his girlfriend is cheating on him.  Show them the messages on your phone.

Now tell them that you’re really pissed off, and finding it hard to stand by and watch him being dragged through the mud.  Tell them you don’t know whether to follow your instincts and confront the girlfriend about her cheating, or honor your friends wishes.  Ask them what they would do in your situation.

Once they start to talk about the issue, sit there and listen to them for a few moments.  More than likely, they will all chip in and say things together.  Anyway, sooner or later you are going to have to interrupt the flow of conversation for a brief moment to introduce yourself.

All it takes is to simply say;  “What are your names guys?  I’m (Your Name).” Now just carry on with the conversation.

Now it’s important to note, that this conversation starter WON’T instantly make any of these women –  let alone your target woman –  fall for you.  This method is NOT designed for that anyway.  What it does do, is open the set of women in a specific way, that helps them to lower their defenses against your approach.

As you know, ALL women put their guards up if ANY man – unless he is famous, or already has high social proof in their eyes – approaches.  It’s just their natural instincts to protect themselves from the advances of ALL the loser type men that ALWAYS try to score with them.

Now that you’ve opened the set of women, the next stage is to create and build attraction.  This article is already becoming too long, so we will continue to concentrate on the creation and building of attraction in this situation, in another article.

Just remember, that you will have just displayed so many attractive qualities to these women.  By confidently approaching their group, and displaying to them your caring nature and loyalty to your friend, your honor towards his wishes, as well as your attractive Alpha Male attitude and characteristics, they will be absolutely compelled, and more than happy to sit there and share their thoughts and advice with you.

Take full advantage of this valuable opportunity to enter their group, and use this time to create and build attraction.  Stay tuned for the next information packed article.

All the best guys

Baden

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How To Get A Womans Number, AND Make Sure That It’s REAL

How many times have you asked for a woman’s phone number, only to have her flat out refuse and say NO?  Or, has she given you A number, but when you call, you find out that it isn’t real?

If you answered YES, then I completely understand what you have been through.

You see, before I learned the secrets of meeting and attracting women, I would quite often find myself in this situation.  There were a few times where I asked, and I got a number.  It was a real buzz and felt GREAT at the time, but then I’d call later, only to find out that it was false.  There were other times though, where I’d ask a woman for her number, only to be REJECTED right there and then.  And sometimes, the women were devastatingly MEAN!

What a confidence KILLER man!  I’m sure you’ll agree with me, that it’s a real CRUSH to the ego, not to mention the humiliation and embarrassment you suffer.  Sometimes, that can completely destroy a man’s confidence and desire to try again.

I want to assure you though, that it doesn’t have to be this way.  If you follow a couple simple rules, and stick to the system of generating and triggering attraction in women first, then you can most definitely get ANY woman’s number, and NEVER have to suffer like that again.

I’m going to show you a couple of simple things you can do, to ensure that you ALWAYS get a number, and also, make sure that number is ALWAYS REAL.

Firstly though, it’s important for you to realize, that ASKING for a number is NOT the way to get numbers.  Asking a woman for her number is like asking her if she thinks you are attractive enough, and valuable enough, for her to consider if you are worthy of a CHANCE to be a part of her life.  Women DO NOT respond well to men who behave this way.  It is weak, insecure and unattractive behavior.

Remember that women respond favorably to confident, relaxed, powerful, dominant Alpha Males.  Alpha Males don’t ASK for numbers.  Alpha Males GET numbers.  We get numbers by being confident, relaxed and easygoing, yet direct and forthright.

Saying “Could I please have your number?” is nowhere near as effective as “Hey, it’s been cool meeting you.  We should get together some time and go do something fun.  What’s your number?”

Can you see the difference?

The first is a request, and implies that you need to ask because you feel you NEED her permission to hang out again.  This gives the woman the impression that you value yourself LOWER than her.  Remember, women don’t like to date men who have a perceived LOWER value than themselves.  Women only want to date men who have an equal or greater value.  Requests leave room for rejection.  Don’t open yourself up for rejection.

The other, is a statement, and implies that you are a man who values YOURSELF highly and want to SHARE yourself and your time with her.  It shows that you are interested in getting to know her better, that it could be fun to do that, and you are confident and direct enough to go after what you want – but on YOUR terms, not hers.  This sub-consciously says to her that you are a confident, take charge, high status, high value man, and giving you her number could be the START of something GREAT.  Besides all that, statements are also harder to reject.

So the first rule to follow when getting a number is:  Don’t Ask.  Make a statement that is hard to refuse.

Here are a couple examples you can try out:

  • “Its been great talking to you, I’ve really enjoyed our conversation.  We should carry on over a coffee some other time, give me your number and I’ll call you.”
  • “So we’ll have to see how good you really are at (whatever she says she’s good at), I’ll grab your number and we’ll go do it sometime.”
  • It’s been cool meeting you.  You seem like a really fun person.  Give me your number and we”ll go do something fun sometime.”

The second rule to follow when getting a number is:  ALWAYS check that the number is real or false BEFORE you part.

There is a really simple test I use to make sure the number I have been given is real or not.  All I do is repeat the number back to her straight after she gives it to me.  But instead of saying the last number, I’ll give her back a different last number.  E.g. she says 0271234567, and I’ll say 0271234562.

If she has given you her real number, she will correct you straight away.  If she doesn’t correct you, then you know she has given you a bogus number.  Don’t be angry or upset at her.  Just call her out on it right there and then, playfully hit her, give her a wink and a smile, tell her you understand and say “you can never be too safe”, and move on.  Go meet someone new or hang out with women you already know.

It’s pointless trying to convince her to give you her number.  If you have a high enough social value she’ll be wanting to give you her real number soon enough anyway.

If you really want to become GREAT with women, and learn some powerful methods and techniques for approaching them and getting their numbers, I highly recommend that you check out my friend Joe Matthews system The Art of Approaching.  He will take you step by step through the process of approaching, meeting and attracting women in a fun, easy to understand and apply system.   Begin by trying out his Free Course On How To Find, Meet, And Attract Any Woman!
Click Here

Have fun trying these tips out.

All the best

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4 Smooth Tricks to Seduce Difficult Women – Attract Her to You Like Crazy Now!

4 Smooth Tricks to Seduce Difficult Women – Attract Her to You Like Crazy Now!
By Shaun Michaels

Are you worried to death about starting to seduce difficult women? Okay, so you got your eyes on this amazing girl and you’ve been thinking about her all day everyday and you think she’s perfect and she’s definitely the one for you — however, she’s one fiery, free-spirited lass that can’t be tamed down and it’s left you feeling totally unhappy and bummed. Don’t worry. There are numerous ways on how to seduce difficult women and you don’t have to pop a vein for it. Here’s how:

  • Skip your pick-up lines.If you’re planning to turn a woman off big time, launch into your tirade of over-used pick -up lines. Pick-up lines already have doom spelled all over them and they always give the impression that you just plan to get laid tonight. So skip this part of your daily routine and engage a girl in a real conversation — now, that’s a normal start.
  • Tell her she’s not your type.Shake her defenses and tell her she’s not your type. Nothing can rile her more. One thing about women is that they think all men are desperate to hook up with them — especially hot women. They always make use of this worn out lines — so turn the tables and tell it to her instead — she’ll more intrigued, challenged and fascinated by you. Of course, try to say this in a flirty matter or else you’ll end up in a slap or two.
  • Don’t be needy for attention.Let me tell you a little secret about difficult women — the more you pursue them, the more they’d fight hard to get away from your grasp. It’s simple physics — don’t be needy for their attention. Just keep your cool, be approachable and friendly and they’d come to you themselves. To lure them over, you don’t need force. Sometimes, men should have finesse.
  • Never stalk her. Ever.If you want to seduce difficult women, the last you might want to do is call them 24/7, send nonstop text messages and give them surprise visits everyday — sure, she might budge but being a stalker will not only creep her out — she’ll totally flee from you. So give it a rest and try to earn her trust first of all.
  • Be normal and easy to talk to.One thing that keeps difficult women away is when you show signs that you’re definitely hitting on them — these girls probably had their dose of too many ogling guys that left them traumatic and downright defensive. So when you want to start to seduce difficult women, be yourself, engage her in a normal conversation and don’t get too flirty right away — this is the first step into making them feel at ease with you.

Do you still wonder about signs she’s into you and how you’ll get lucky and absolutely desirable to the opposite sex? Do you absolutely have what it takes to find out the basics of how to date hot girls? Learn more tips about approaching a girl for the first time and other tricks on how to seduce difficult women by visiting my website right now. It holds all amazing techniques on how to be great and sensual with women you thought you’d never get a chance with!

If you are truly serious about mastering the art of attraction and being able to date and seduce ANY girl you want, visit this free website now and get a free report: Master Online Dater

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