How To Be Attractive To Women

To begin with, you need to understand WHY women become attracted to certain men.  Once you have come to understand this, then you can more easily implement the proper changes in your personality and character to be more attractive to women.

Let’s start by looking at WHY women find some men extremely attractive, while other men have NO HOPE in hell.  On the surface, two men may SEEM the same.  They have similar physiques, similar looks, they make the same amount of money, drive the same sort of car etc etc.

But when it comes to attracting women, one is WAAYY ahead of the other in ‘the game’.  Why is this, and what are they doing differently?  It’s really quite simple – one possesses and displays attractive qualities and characteristics, and the other doesn’t.  When women become attracted to a man, it’s because he has ‘certain‘ qualities and characteristics that have TRIGGERED that attraction in them.

Women are sub-consciously hard-wired and programmed with an innate desire to mate with the DOMINANT men, the ALPHA MALES in our societies.  This desire has been naturally ingrained in women since the beginning of recorded history, when survival DEPENDED upon the strongest and fittest of the males to protect and provide for the welfare of the group.  By mating with the alphas, women ensured the greatest chance of survival to her offspring and the human race.

In fact, it’s such a natural instinct that most female mammals are programmed this way.  You only need to have a quick look at the many different species in the animal kingdom, and their sexual attraction behavior to see this is true.  Chimpanzees and Baboons are a prime example.  Go ahead, watch a program from Discovery Channel or Animal Kingdom about animal sexual attraction and you will see this for yourself.

The Dominant Alpha Male gets to have ALL the females, while the other males have to resort to tricks and bribery to get sex.  No different to humans really.  How many men do you see, trying to buy, bribe or trick their way into a woman’s life, heart and pants?  Women are NOT attracted to this type of behavior.  Are you one of these men?


Ok, even though we now live in a completely different era, and survival of the human race is no longer dependent on the strongest and fittest men, women are STILL hard-wired and programmed with that innate desire to mate with the strongest dominant males.  Remember, IT IS A NATURAL INSTINCT!

In this day and age though, men no longer NEED to be strong or fit PHYSICALLY (although it doesn’t hurt to be), but we DO NEED to be strong in character and personality.  We need to have the strength of character to follow our OWN hearts, make our OWN decisions, our OWN rules and control our OWN lives in order to have more success with women.

This is what gives a man his DOMINANCE.  It’s his ability to be in CONTROL of himself, and LEAD others that makes him an ALPHA MALE.  You don’t need to be a bully, or domineering, because that is NOT dominant.  That sort of behavior is just INSECURE, NEEDY and WEAK.  You DO need to be strong within yourself, confident and comfortable in who you are, decisive about what you want and have the GUTS to go and get what you want, in order to be a DOMINANT man.

If you are currently allowing women to CONTROL your destiny, or worse, GIVING CONTROL AWAY to the women in your life, then you will be suffering from a serious LACK of attractive characteristics and behavior.


So in order to become more attractive to women, you will need to start developing the strength of character to STAND on your OWN, and lead the way.  This starts with CONFIDENCE.

If you are hoping to have ANY sort of success with women, then it is absolutely ESSENTIAL, to develop your confidence so that you have the personal INNER strength to stand up for what you want.  Nobody will just give you what you want, you MUST have the BALLS to go and get what you want.

But confidence on its own is NOT enough.  There are lots of guys out there who have more than enough confidence, but will lose out to someone who possesses this characteristic every time.  What is it?  INITIATIVE.  This means YOU MUST ALWAYS BE FIRST.  Be first to walk up to a woman and start a conversation, be first to kiss her (without asking), be first to get her number, lead her to the bedroom, be first to initiate sex.  When you are out with a group, stay out in front.  Be FIRST.

In other words – LEAD!!!

You also NEED to start right NOW, being DECISIVE.  Start making decisions.  When someone asks for your input, give it.  If a woman asks what to do, tell her.  Start RIGHT NOW being decisive and making decisions.

DO NOT sit on the fence and say “I don’t care, whatever you want babe”, or “It’s up to you baby, you choose”.  This is WEAK behavior and NOT ATTRACTIVE TO WOMEN at all.  Women are NOT attracted to weak men.  “But I’m just being courteous and thinking about what she wants”, I can hear you saying.

NOOO, YOU ARE NOT!!!  You are being WEAK and INDECISIVE, and annoying the fuck out of her.  That’s why BAD-BOYS can ALWAYS get women – because they take control and lead the way.  They know what they want, and they have the confidence to go and get it.  Women are EXCITED by this behaviour, and by THE MAN who behaves this way.

Be strong, be confident, use initiative, be decisive.  BE DOMINANT.  Confidence, Initiative and Decisiveness are some of the most IMPORTANT qualities you will need, to be attractive to women.  They are not the only qualities, but these qualities will lay the foundation to becoming a SUAVE MAN.  If you ever hope to have the sort of success that you dream of, then start developing these qualities.



The Fundamentals of being a SUAVE MAN

There is a “type” of  man we are going to focus on, and help you become … He is the “type” that women absolutely LOVE … And LUST … He is a DOMINANT, POWERFUL, MASCULINE ALPHA MALE who is ALSO funny, kind, caring, thoughtful and understanding.  He is THE SUAVE MAN.

The Suave Man is not a bad ass with no respect or manners, but neither is he a wussy, push-over of a guy with no back-bone.  He has a combination of “nice guy” and “bad boy” qualities that make him irresistible to women.

He is a DOMINANT, POWERFUL, MASCULINE  man. A man who can take charge and lead the way in any situation, yet isn’t domineering or controlling.  He is open, friendly, optimistic, positive, fun and happy, yet will take a stand against those who are disrespectful, aggressive or violent.  He has his own opinions, yet lets others have theirs without judging them. He makes all those around him feel GREAT about being with him. 

He is completely comfortable in the presence of ALL women, no matter how beautiful they may be.  He treats them ALL the same way – with a fun, playful confidence and cheeky, flirtatious nature.  He ALWAYS has a cool, calm demeanor.  He makes women feel safe, yet extremely alive.  He enjoys the company of the ladies and they CRAVE to be in his company.  He LOVES women and women LOVE him.

He believes and KNOWS, that he is sexually attractive to women, yet doesn’t behave overly cocky or arrogant.  He knows he’s extremely attractive to women because of the way they treat him. However, he doesn’t need constant validation of his attractiveness nor does he seek it. He doesn’t need to beat his chest, make loud noises or big gestures like the other beta-males either, thinking that women will notice them if they behave like apes.

He understands what women find attractive and his character, attitudes and behaviour are proof that he is a highly attractive man.

I want you to read those paragraphs over and over, until the words sink into your head.  Ingrain those words into your sub-conscious mind and way of thinking, because this is the type of man you should be trying to become.  This is the man that women find extremely attractive and want to be with.

Here is a list of qualities you NEED to commit to developing and reinforcing in your sub-conscious mind.  You need to be

  • Confident
  • A Leader
  • Decisive
  • Strong in Personal Character
  • Funny
  • Passionate
  • Fun-loving
  • Bold
  • Courageous
  • Relaxed
  • Thoughtful
  • Kind
  • Caring
  • Understanding

These are the qualities that will help you become the type of man that ALL women want to be with.  If you can develop and ingrain these qualities into your personality and character, I promise you, you can have ANY women you desire.  Hell, you can have ANYTHING you desire!  You will have the strength of charater to have anything you want.  ANYTHING!!

Many people who are “authorities” on picking up women, or being a pick-up artist, or being a player, or whatever other label you want to put on it, will tell you not all of these qualities are necessary.  This is because they are only concerned with “picking up” women.  It’s only necessary for them to attract women initially, for the purpose of getting sex.

If that’s all you’re after, then by all means, go ahead, but that’s not SUAVE.  I’m not against you getting more sex, shit man, I’m all for that.  It’s the mis-use of this information, that leads to women becoming PREY, rather than PEOPLE, that pisses me off.  More often than not, men who behave this way just want conquests, not relationships.

If you want LASTING success with women, trust me, women will absolutely CRAVE to be with you, and be completely addicted to you, if you develop ALL the qualities on our list.  That’s what will make you a true ladies man, a real deal, SUAVE MAN.


Become a SUAVE MAN

A Real Man.  A Ladies Man.  A Man of the World.  A strong, confident, take charge and lead from the front man, who radiates pure, male sexual energy.  Instinctively, women can’t help being attracted to him, and they absolutely CRAVE to be with him.  He is a SUAVE MAN.

Does this paragraph describe you?  If it doesn’t, then pay attention.  CLOSE attention.  Because this stuff CAN change your life when it comes to getting THE LADIES!

Lets be honest, that’s what it’s all about isn’t it?  That’s why you’re here right … to learn how to attract women?

Well, in this modern, politically and socially correct world of the 21st century, many men in our societies have evolved in mind-set and behavior when it comes to attracting women sexually.  Sadly though, evolved in the WRONG way! However, most often, it isn’t any fault of the man because of the way we have been socially programmed and conditioned.

Many men look to IMITATE the ideal man – the man that women SAY they are looking for, and what the media portrays as ideal – without understanding what it is that women are INSTINCTIVELY attracted to.  What women SAY they need and what women ACTUALLY need are often two very different desires.

We have been conditioned to believe that women are attracted to good looks, fame, fortune and fancy stuff, and without these things, we are doomed to a life of either NO women, or the ones at the bottom of the pile.

Look at my opening statement.  What images do these words conjure up in your mind?  How many times in your life have you heard the IDEAL MAN described this way?  Probably NONE right?  That’s because not many people, let alone women themselves and especially the media, really understand what it is that women find attractive in a man.

We have been programmed and conditioned to think and believe that women want someone who is nice, caring, thoughtful, respectful, funny, someone they can take home to meet their parents and on and on…  Yet, we constantly see women dating and even MARRYING, bad bastards who treat them terribly, are not caring or thoughtful and seem to drag them down into the depths of despair.

Why is it we are conditioned to believe one thing, yet the REALITY is very, VERY DIFFERENT?

Because there is a lack of understanding about the PRIMAL INSTINCTS that ALL women have been programmed with!

Here at Suave Man, I’m going to help you understand these instincts and the emotional and psychological programming of women, so you know what they’re attracted to in a man. Then you can modify your character and behaviour to become that man!

Your success with women has nothing to do with knowing the RIGHT things to SAY, the RIGHT things to DO or the RIGHT things to HAVE.  You don’t need to try and become the IDEAL man that society has proclaimed to be ideal.  None of these things matter one damn bit.  Not if you want REAL SUCCESS.

REAL SUCCESS comes by changing your character, attitudes, behaviour and beliefs to become the REAL ideal man.  A DOMINANT, POWERFUL, MASCULINE ALPHA MALE who ALSO possesses ‘NICE GUY’ qualities.  THE SUAVE MAN!!  That man is the guy in the opening statement.  This is the man we are going to focus on and train and re-program you to become.

And trust me …  If women DO NOT find you attractive right now, it WILL take training and re-programming.  But it’s worthwhile and the benefits far outweigh the discomfort of changing yourself.  Would you rather be doing what you’ve been doing so far, getting nowhere or not nearly as far as you would like with the ladies?

Or do you want to be the guy that women flock to in droves, trying to get close to you, trying to be the ONE to be with you and trying to get YOU into their beds?!

Then continue to visit The Suave Man and learn how to attract women, what makes certain men irresistible to the ladies and how YOU can succeed with them.  Learn to be THE SUAVE MAN!!