So your girl has told you it’s over. You’re aching inside and feel like life just isn’t worth living without her.
Everywhere you look, things remind you of your time together. Every time you turn on the radio a bloody song comes on that gets you thinking of her again.
You’re hurting so much that you feel like the pain is taking over your life. You can’t concentrate, you’re not eating or sleeping properly. Shit, other women probably don’t even seem attractive to you anymore either!
And, you keep telling yourself that everything would be fine if you could just make her love you again.
So you hatch a plan. You decide that you will be romantic and profess your undying love to her. You shower her with gifts and send her flowers and poetry that lets her know how much she means to you. You tell her friends how much you miss her and that you’d do ANYTHING for her.
She’s being resistant to your advances – actually, shes starting to get really annoyed and abrasive towards you – but you know that if you persist she will eventually realize how much of a good catch you are and take you back again.
Does any of this sound familiar to you?
Before I learned what I know now, my partner of 7 years broke up with me. I went through this exact situation with that exact same scenario. And you know what? My plan to romance and woo her never worked.
You know why? Because I had NO understanding whatsoever about what women are REALLY attracted to and why behaving the way I did actually pushed her further away from me.
If you are going through the same thing at the moment, then I know exactly what you’re going through right now. Believe me I know firsthand what that pain and suffering feels like.
And since I’ve been there myself and know exactly what it feels like, I’m going to say this to you; Get a grip on your emotions, drop your ego and STOP BEING DESPERATE!
Let me assure you that there IS a way you can get your ex back.
But that way is NOT by telling her how much you love her, how much life sucks without her or that you can’t go on living without her in your life. You won’t get her back by showering her with gifts, flowers and poetry. That’s just pure desperation.
Remember this, it’s IMPORTANT: Desperation is an attraction KILLER!
This is what you NEED to do RIGHT NOW. You need to get yourself together and start IMPROVING yourself. And if you think you don’t need improving, then why doesn’t your woman want to be with you anymore?
So how do you start improving yourself? Simple – you need to start LEARNING.
This isn’t about you improving by trying to make more money, or buying new clothes, cars, houses, jewelery or anything like that. This is about you learning WHAT, WHY and HOW!
You need to learn WHAT women find attractive in men. You need to learn WHY women are attracted to those things and you need to learn HOW to behave to generate maximum attraction in women. Once you have learned those things then you need to be able to implement the proper changes in your personality and behavior traits to make yourself a highly desirable man.
Carrying on like a desperate, needy little wuss just isn’t going to cut it!
So, I want you to start learning the WHAT, WHY and HOW about attracting women. Once you know this knowledge and have implemented the proper changes to your personality and behavior traits, I promise you, you can have ANY woman you want.
Have a good look around this site. There is plenty of information and links to resources that can really help you in your quest for love – or lust. Learn what and why women are attracted to certain qualities in a man, then learn how to implement those qualities in your own life so you can be a highly desirable and successful ladies man.
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