There is a lot of confusion among men as to why women leave them. Along with the pain, suffering and humiliation that goes along with being dumped, it’s also the confusion and lack of understanding and knowledge about WHY their women have left them, that leaves men baffled.
So I want to give you a quick insight into this age old scenario.
So here’s the situation: Your girl has just told you that it’s over. She needs time and space to herself. Don’t worry it’s got nothing to do with you, you’re great, it’s just that I don’t know what’s wrong with me she says, “I just don’t have time for a relationship at the moment.” Then the next thing you know, it’s a couple of days later and she’s already with another guy!
What the hell? I thought she just said she doesn’t have time for a relationship? How could she break my heart like that and so callously lie to my face you are thinking?
Because, here’s the thing; what she REALLY meant, was that she doesn’t have time for a relationship with YOU! And you know why? Because more than likely you’ve been behaving in a way that has become BORING and PREDICTABLE to her, and you are NOT a strong, powerful, dominant Alpha Male. She just doesn’t FEEL any chemistry or attraction for you anymore.
Now I don’t know you personally, but I’ve seen this situation enough times to know without a shadow of a doubt that this is the reason why women leave men. Women don’t leave men because they behave badly, treat their women like shit, cheat on them or whatever other reason you can think of.
No, MOST women usually end up leaving their men because those men start behaving in a weak, boring and predictable manner. The men have become boring to be with, and weak in nature. The men have usually started handing over control – or worse, allowed the women to TAKE control away from them. Absolutely NOT what women are looking for in a man!
Even if it’s just the little things, like what to have for dinner, where to go or what to do. If the man is NOT leading the way, making decisions and taking control then the woman has NO choice but to do it herself. And when this happens, the man’s value in the eyes of the woman starts to diminish, and then so does his attractiveness. He has become weak, boring and predictable – things that women HATE more than cheating and beatings.
That’s why MOST women don’t leave their men if they catch him cheating. He obviously has value and attractiveness in the eyes of another women, which gives him value and attractiveness in her eyes. Sure she’s going to be pissed as anything and you will be hard pushed to get anything from her for awhile, BUT … If he usually leads the way and takes control in their relationship, she won’t leave!
On the other hand, if the man is constantly leaving the decision making up to the woman, fails to take control of the little things in the relationship – as well as the big things – and would rather sit around home and watch sports all night long, then the woman is going to find him less valuable and far less attractive.
So if you want your woman – or women – to constantly find you attractive and valuable, then you need to start behaving like a man of true value, of true power. You need to start behaving like a dominant, strong and powerful Alpha Male.
When you behave in a strong and powerful manner, you will be displaying characteristics that ALL women are subconsciously programmed to be attracted to. Because this attraction is on a subconscious level, women have no control over how they FEEL towards a man who possesses these qualities.
If you have ever dreamed of being irresistible to ANY woman, and would like the power to attract whoever you desire, then I strongly encourage you to check out my good friend John Alexander’s Alpha Male System.
John’s system will teach you everything you need to know about what women are subconsciously programmed to respond to, and how you can become the type of man that possesses those qualities that women can’t help being attracted to.
And remember; take control in your relationships, make decisions and behave in a strong and powerful manner. This will be a great start to you being a highly valuable and attractive man.
All the best