To start with, I want you to realize that it is possible to meet women ANYWHERE. Having said that though, while it’s possible to meet women anywhere – even if you are just walking down the street – it’s more probable that you will meet them at a public gathering.
In my opinion, it’s definitely a lot easier at public gatherings – you know they are there for a reason, and more than likely, NOT in a hurry to leave.
Places like pubs, bars, nightclubs, parties, restaurants, cafe’s, stores, malls, outdoor events or get-togethers, are all places you are MOST likely to meet women. While each of these settings has its own set of challenges, advantages and dis-advantages for meeting and attracting women, your success will ALWAYS depend entirely on YOUR skills and abilities in approach and attraction.
Regardless of what setting you may be in, the fundamentals are ALWAYS the same. If you can learn and apply these key fundamental skills and methods, then you are more likely to see success.
O.k, so you have seen a woman you like the look of. You feel the need to meet her and get to know her better. How do you go about it? Well here is a method I’ve used on countless occasions and had incredible success rates with.
I’ve found that this method works best if you approach a set of 2 or more women. Also, don’t be discouraged if the set has men in it. Just befriend them as well, and the women will be even more impressed with your social skills. (Women LOVE men that are ‘leaders of men’).
This method is best suited to a social setting, like a bar, lounge or cafe. Just remember, you are going to be talking, so a loud dance club isn’t an ideal location.
Also, this works equally well if you are either alone or with a friend. Either way, it doesn’t really matter. But I’ve found – although if you are just beginning, it may feel a little too intimidating – it’s actually more effective if you are alone. But only IF you display the confidence, behavior traits and characteristics of an Alpha Male.
First, this needs a small amount of previous preparation, and requires you to have friends who play the game of attraction and seduction as well. (Shouldn’t be too hard considering we are ALL interested in being more attractive to women.)
All you do, is get a wing-man to text a message to you, stating that he has just found out his girlfriend is cheating on him, and doesn’t know what to do. He also says he doesn’t want to confront her because he doesn’t want to destroy their relationship.
Send a text back saying that she is already destroying their relationship, and if he doesn’t confront her, then you will, because you will NOT stand idly by while she hurts him. Then he sends a final message back saying that he appreciates your loyalty but doesn’t want you to cause any drama, and he will sort it out his own way.
Now approach the set, and say; “Hey guys look, I only have a few spare moments, but I could really use a woman’s opinion, can you help me out?”
Note: Remember, it is ESSENTIAL, that you ALWAYS display the CORRECT, attractive attitudes and characteristics when approaching. (See 5 Keys to Approaching Women). Also, by letting the set know that your time is limited, it sub-consciously lets them know, that you are NOT trying to intrude on their time and space, and impose yourself on their group.
Women love to give advice to men, and it is extremely rare that a set of women will refuse to help out a man who has the balls and courage to approach them and ask for help.
Side Note: If they do refuse to help you , continue to be happy and friendly to them, thank them for their time and confidently walk away. If there is another set of women close by, approach them and apply the same methods. It’s important to do this, because it displays to your target group, that your intentions for approaching them stem from a genuine need for help.
This will build social value in the eyes of your target group – as they witness your high level of social skill – and more than likely, they will be more than willing to help you out after you leave the second set of women.
Anyway, back on track.
When they agree to help you, tell them that a friend of yours has just found out that his girlfriend is cheating on him. Show them the messages on your phone.
Now tell them that you’re really pissed off, and finding it hard to stand by and watch him being dragged through the mud. Tell them you don’t know whether to follow your instincts and confront the girlfriend about her cheating, or honor your friends wishes. Ask them what they would do in your situation.
Once they start to talk about the issue, sit there and listen to them for a few moments. More than likely, they will all chip in and say things together. Anyway, sooner or later you are going to have to interrupt the flow of conversation for a brief moment to introduce yourself.
All it takes is to simply say; “What are your names guys? I’m (Your Name).” Now just carry on with the conversation.
Now it’s important to note, that this conversation starter WON’T instantly make any of these women – let alone your target woman – fall for you. This method is NOT designed for that anyway. What it does do, is open the set of women in a specific way, that helps them to lower their defenses against your approach.
As you know, ALL women put their guards up if ANY man – unless he is famous, or already has high social proof in their eyes – approaches. It’s just their natural instincts to protect themselves from the advances of ALL the loser type men that ALWAYS try to score with them.
Now that you’ve opened the set of women, the next stage is to create and build attraction. This article is already becoming too long, so we will continue to concentrate on the creation and building of attraction in this situation, in another article.
Just remember, that you will have just displayed so many attractive qualities to these women. By confidently approaching their group, and displaying to them your caring nature and loyalty to your friend, your honor towards his wishes, as well as your attractive Alpha Male attitude and characteristics, they will be absolutely compelled, and more than happy to sit there and share their thoughts and advice with you.
Take full advantage of this valuable opportunity to enter their group, and use this time to create and build attraction. Stay tuned for the next information packed article.
All the best guys