Why Women Leave Their Men

There is a lot of confusion among men as to why women leave them.  Along with the pain, suffering and humiliation that goes along with being dumped, it’s also the confusion and lack of understanding and knowledge about WHY their women have left them, that leaves men baffled.

So I want to give you a quick insight into this age old scenario.

So here’s the situation:  Your girl has just told you that it’s over.  She needs time and space to herself.  Don’t worry it’s got nothing to do with you, you’re great, it’s just that I don’t know what’s wrong with me she says, “I just don’t have time for a relationship at the moment.”  Then the next thing you know, it’s a couple of days later and she’s already with another guy!

What the hell?  I thought she just said she doesn’t have time for a relationship?  How could she break my heart like that and so callously lie to my face you are thinking?

Because, here’s the thing; what she REALLY meant, was that she doesn’t have time for a relationship with YOU!  And you know why?  Because more than likely you’ve been behaving in a way that has become BORING and PREDICTABLE to her, and you are NOT a strong, powerful, dominant Alpha Male.  She just doesn’t FEEL any chemistry or attraction for you anymore.

Now I don’t know you personally, but I’ve seen this situation enough times to know without a shadow of a doubt that this is the reason why women leave men.  Women don’t leave men because they behave badly, treat their women like shit, cheat on them or whatever other reason you can think of.

No, MOST women usually end up leaving their men because those men start behaving in a weak, boring and predictable manner.  The men have become boring to be with, and weak in nature.  The men have usually started handing over control – or worse, allowed the women to TAKE control away from them.  Absolutely NOT what women are looking for in a man!

Even if it’s just the little things,  like what to have for dinner, where to go or what to do.  If the man is NOT leading the way, making decisions and taking control then the woman has NO choice but to do it herself.  And when this happens, the man’s value in the eyes of the woman starts to diminish, and then so does his attractiveness.  He has become weak, boring and predictable – things that women HATE more than cheating and beatings.

That’s why MOST women don’t leave their men if they catch him cheating.  He obviously has value and attractiveness in the eyes of another women, which gives him value and attractiveness in her eyes.  Sure she’s going to be pissed as anything and you will be hard pushed to get anything from her for awhile, BUT …  If he usually leads the way and takes control in their relationship, she won’t leave!

On the other hand, if the man is constantly leaving the decision making up to the woman, fails to take control of the little things in the relationship – as well as the big things – and would rather sit around home and watch sports all night long, then the woman is going to find him less valuable and far less attractive.

So if you want your woman – or women – to constantly find you attractive and valuable, then you need to start behaving like a man of true value, of true power.  You need to start behaving like a dominant, strong and powerful Alpha Male.

When you behave in a strong and powerful manner, you will be displaying characteristics that ALL women are subconsciously programmed to be attracted to.  Because this attraction is on a subconscious level, women have no control over how they FEEL towards a man who possesses these qualities.

If you have ever dreamed of being irresistible to ANY woman, and would like the power to attract whoever you desire, then I strongly encourage you to check out my good friend John Alexander’s Alpha Male System.

John’s system will teach you everything you need to know about what women are subconsciously programmed to respond to, and how you can become the type of man that possesses those qualities that women can’t help being attracted to.

CLICK HERE to check it out NOW

And remember; take control in your relationships, make decisions and behave in a strong and powerful manner.  This will be a great start to you being a highly valuable and attractive man.

All the best



About Baden Maxwell

Baden has been incredibly successful with women since 1999/2000. Suffering a devastating break-up in 1997 when his fiance of 7 years left him, and after enduring 2 years of failure and feeling frustrated and annoyed at his lack of success with the ladies, he vowed to turn his life around! Baden discovered "The Secrets" to becoming an attractive man, and he devoted himself to learning and applying the principles of sexual attraction and relationship success through dedicated study, practice, trial and error. By applying these powerful principles, Baden was able to transform himself into the type of man that women find extremely attractive, highly desirable and incredibly sexy. To become extremely attractive and irresistible to women as well, follow Baden @ Suave-Man.com.
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4 Responses to Why Women Leave Their Men

  1. FRANKO SAYS says:

    there are more and more women that are leaving their husbands for other women today, that may have a lot to do with it. plus if the man is VERY ABUSIVE, that would certainly have a lot to do with it as well. the problem today for us STRAIGHT MEN that looking to meet a good woman for us now, are going to have a VERY HARD TIME doing so. and i am one of them. i myself seem to meet all the LOW LIFE WOMEN TODAY, instead of the DECENT STRAIGHT ONES. since i was married at one time, i was a VERY CARING AND LOVING HUSBAND to my wife at one time. i never ever MISTREATED her in anyway, and i was VERY COMMITTED to her as well. now that i am single and alone again, it is CERTAINLY VERY DIFFICULT meeting another good woman for me again.

  2. Hey Franko

    I sense a fair amount of resent towards women from you, am I right?

    I’ll be honest with you brother, because I’ve been in your shoes before. I was also a committed and loving partner. I treated my woman well too. But she left me as well. And it wasn’t because she was a low-life woman who wanted to find excitement somewhere else. She left because I didn’t understand WHAT triggers attraction in women. I was safe, predictable and BORING!

    My partner was like EVERY other woman out there. She NEEDED me to possess certain qualities and characteristics that ALL women are hard-wired and subconsciously programmed to be attracted to.

    And I didn’t possess them at that time. Simple as that!

    Meeting good, even GREAT women is NOT difficult. It’s only difficult when we don’t understand what it is that women are attracted to in men… Simple as that!

    Look bro, you’ve made a GREAT start. You’re searching for information that can help you. You’re already ahead of 90% of all the men out there in the world, because MOST guys never think to try and learn the truth about what women find attractive.

    Keep visiting The Suave Man, and any other site you come across that teaches these principles. Read, watch, learn and APPLY the teachings and I personally GUARANTEE you, that you WILL start to see massive improvements in your love life.

    How can I be so sure? Because I’ve been EXACTLY where you are today.

    You CAN do it brother!

  3. Frank says:

    She left me over a year ago , I have not been able to get over her. I know she used me lived rent free I payed everything , bought her a car loved her daughter and liked her older son. But soon I couldn’t do enough I cleaned no help from anyone money flying out. Yea I know was used but I loved her I believe I was a cash cow . I am a good guy could lose 20 pounds hey I am 50 . I work love animals and I want someone in my life. I know I did not give her what she needed working long hours then having to when I went home plus cook for her even though she was home hours before. I am stupid . Can’t get over her and I trust no women as soon as I start to really relax I feel like I am cheating on my ex and back off . What can I do ? My brain says I am better off my kids and friends all saw the same thing yet I still love her . When I give my heart I guess I give it

  4. Hey Frank

    First, I just want to apologize for not replying sooner.

    Second, don’t beat yourself up too much man. I know it’s pretty painful to have your woman leave you, but there needs to be a point where you say to yourself “ENOUGH!” It’s been over a year now, and you’re jeopardizing future relationships with other more WORTHY women because of your attachment to your ex.

    I’ve seen your situation far too many times, and I’ve even been there myself once. But I can honestly say – and it’s clear to everyone who loves you – that you’re better off without her in your life. Now I know that’s NOT going to change how you’re feeling, especially the pain that goes with still loving someone who has left you. BUT, if you want to change your love life (even get her back if that’s what you really want), it’s ESSENTIAL that you learn and understand the core reasons of WHY women leave us men. And then, learn, understand and APPLY the principles that will allow you to transform, so you become the type of man who can have ANY woman you want!

    I strongly encourage you to study the material I have here on Suave Man (and other dating success sites), especially the material about developing Alpha Male qualities and making them a part of who you are. I promise you man, if you can apply those principles in your life, you’ll get to a stage where you’ll be able to have ANY woman you choose. And if you want your ex back, you’ll be the type of man that ALL women find irresistible, and she’ll be BEGGING for you to take her back.

    I’m not here to lecture you in this reply, because there’s plenty of good quality information here on my site, but what I will say is this: Judging by your comments, it sounds to me that the reason she left you is because you did NOT possess and display the characteristics and behavior traits that ALL women find attractive in men.

    Women are hard-wired and sub-consciously programmed to be attracted to strong, powerful, dominant Alpha Males. Not in the sense that you need to be the meanest, baddest SOB on the planet. But in the sense that your self-confidence, self-esteem and self-worth is the strongest and most powerful that YOU can be.

    Women are looking for a man who has a strong sense of worth, extremely high self-esteem, supreme confidence and values himself strongly. They are looking for a man who can LEAD the way and take charge in ANY situation. This is the type of man that women DREAM about being with.

    They are NOT looking for a cash-cow. Because you ALLOWED yourself to be taken advantage of, she lost respect for you, and ultimately attraction towards you. Which is why she would’ve left. NO OTHER REASON. Which means; It’s NOT personal, (I know that sounds contradictory, however, she left because of qualities you did NOT possess, rather than WHO you are).

    Good news is: YOU CAN CHANGE! You can be the ultimate YOU and have ANY woman you want. You only need to learn and apply the principles that will transform you into that man! Go and BE a strong, confident, powerful, decisive Alpha Male!

    All the best Frank


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